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I am the doctor on call

I am surrounded by people all day, but I often feel alone. I’ve had years of training and experience, but I don’t have all the answers.  My mission is to help, but I can feel completely helpless.  There is noise all around me: IV lines beeping, nurses chatter, TV’s playing, but my pager makes me jump.  …

How we build our own prison

With Spring and warmer weather just around the corner and thousands more people vaccinated against Covid each day, there’s a sense of freedom in the air. Freedom to see friends and family. Freedom to go to restaurants. Freedom to make travel plans. It’s a cautious freedom, but progress nonetheless. In the Jewish calendar, a lunisolar …

Stop Shoulding On Yourself

I recently coached a fellow physician about the stress she feels during some of her outpatient clinic days. She had several thoughts about what happens and what should or shouldn’t happen. For example, clinic should run on time. Patients shouldn’t be late. I should get to eat lunch. Patients shouldn’t have unrealistic expectations and bring …

What I learned from my pandemic birthday

I recently celebrated another trip around the sun, but this one felt very different than years past. It’s not just because it was a pandemic birthday with no parties or candles to blow out in front of family and friends. And it’s not because it was less exciting with no real plans to go or …

Exciting New Endeavors

The last three months have gone by much faster than I expected. My kids have been home doing remote learning this entire school year so far with no clear return date to school. Covid-19 cases continue to rise in our area and around the country and world, so I have little hope of them returning …

To School or Not to School

For the last several weeks many families, including my own, have had to grapple with the decision of whether or not to send their kids to school in person or keep them home and do elearning. Schools collected surveys, sometimes on more than one occasion, to try to develop some plan for the fall. There …

Small Successes

I have some very exciting new to share. In case my two or three readers haven’t noticed yet, I added a subscribe button to this blog!!! Yes, this is a very thrilling development for me in my blogging journey. From the time I started this blog, I envisioned a forum that might grow with time. …

Division

Wherever I look these days, I see an either/or mentality. Black or white. No room for gray. It impacts race, religion, politics, life.  We are humans with many layers. With depth. Complexity. But that’s gone now. We are either an ally or a racist. We listen to CNN and The New York Times or to …